Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. Hey guys. I am hoping I am not the only guy in this boat We are still relatively young I am 30 and she is 29 and we have been married 4 years, been together about ten. We used to have a pretty active sex life but it has gone dormant since we had kids about 3 years ago. She always says she is tired and makes excuses like she can't be bothered or other trivial things.
When a Wife Doesn't Want to Have Sex - Marriage Missions International
I feel a need to address both women and men on this matter, because it DOES matter. Both feel very strongly about this part of their marriage. But it also addresses what it is like for the man to be refused. It is a gigantic issue, if your sex life is unfulfilled. He and his wife Lori have a wet site called The Marriage Bed. Paul knows what he is talking about on this issue. So men, please read the following series of articles posted on The-generous-husband.
The man went on to unpack more of his marital history. He told me that the marriage had started off well and in the early stages of their relationship there had been a healthy sex life. Both spouses seemed satisfied by the level of frequency and intimacy in their bedroom. Their marriage bed now seemed to be a cold and uninviting place where both spouses curled up on their own side with no physical touch at all.
My wife of 30 years and I are separated but still live in the same flat and own a very successful business together. I am quite a dominant person, but my mother had dementia and my wife had myalgic encephalomyelitis ME for a long time, so it fell to me to hold everything together. We went to five or six counsellors, separated in our marriage but still kept trying to make it work.